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Swallowing Memories
Relationship Ying and Yang
I took a hiatus. Rather, I started a blog about my single life in San Diego then met a man who I have now been dating for about two years. I stopped writing because I thought it was the polite …
I'm in the Thick of Juicing
I've been Cruising
So Far, So Great!
Last Cup of Coffee
Week 1 and Day 2 of Being Unemployed
My goals are simple since becoming unemployed: apply for jobs, cook (a la the movie Julia and Julia) and exercise. So yesterday, despite staying awake until 3:00 AM because "I don't have to work the next day," my eyes popped …
Love is a Battlefield
We all date. And we all date for a varied number of days, weeks, or for the truly brave, years. I count myself amongst the fearless soldiers of singles who lived in the trenches while others flitted on and off …
Faith Restored
Let me begin by recommending the stay-cation. I know it is a function of our flailing economy, but it allows one to enjoy his or her everyday environment outside of the confines of the daily mundanity that dictates the Monday …
Response to: Kissing Cousins (errr, mothers) and Interracial Dating
Josh Board wrote an article entitled, “Kissing Cousins (errr, mothers) and Interracial Dating.” In that article he discussed oddities and extremes. He moved from talking about families and inappropriate displays of affection to interracial dating. This piece is in reaction …
A Hot Tub, A Stripper, and An Escort
How do I start? This may reveal some kind of prejudicial side of me, but I prefer to see it as discretion…or sanity. So it goes, I ended up on a rooftop somewhere downtown with the lights of the city …
A Fireman in the Alley
Three girls walk into a bar on a Friday afternoon. The bar is called the Alley. From the outside it looks like an old fashioned kind of nautically swanky place along the coast. The building hangs off the corner of …
Playing the Player
Playing someone or getting played has become a common phrase in our dating lives. It seems more and more often we hear people speaking of hating the player or the game, playing the game, or getting played by the player. …
Shout Out to Real Boobs
I know many people, men and women alike, love the fake ta tas. They are as reliable as Starbucks. They have that same familiar shape, feeling and symmetry that give Americans comfort in a neurosis driven society. They may have …
Fetish Much?
The OB Hostel?
Time Wasted at a Sub-par Bar
Schooled off Orchard Ave.
Side Note: I've been learning to surf for approximately 10 years and I'm still a beginner or just a bad surfer. Even if I cannot artfully catch a significant amount of waves nor gracefully ride the faces once I paddle …