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re: #40: Didn't ya mean "You too, Daniels-y, nan?" ;) re: #41: Ok, Target's not a bad place to register. "Club Wedd" has this great gift, to help Mary up to bed: http://www.target.com/Deluxe-Doggy-Steps/dp/B000E… re: #43: Oh man, bridal flip flops are back! Yet--can a manatee both flip and flop? Sure--like nobody's business. Cuddle--order her at least two pair! And Grant's brought out the gold lame bridesmaids... I feel a wedding coming back on!
— April 9, 2010 1:20 a.m.

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Hey Eric, I would hope that my words are taken more seriously than as "rightfully irritated." Clearly, I hope to repeat some words John needs to hear. I know that I have said time and again that a man should not be kicked when down, and that he deserves whatever last shred of dignity he has (silence about his problems here on these threads). However, now that just feels like feeding his manufactured delusions. I admit, it is insufferable to see someone call him a "hero," when he has abandoned his son over and over, when he mistreats his friends and lies to them, and steals from them at first opportunity, biting the hands that feed and care for him like some dumb animal--completely heedless of their pain. But he isn't a dumb animal--he is a man, and still has choice, some vestige of free will. He cleans up, with the help of some put-upon friend once again, and has leisure to contemplate what free will he has--he cleans up FOR TWO WEEKS, --and STILL makes the choice to return to the streets and drink himself into the ground. It is not heroic, it is contemptible. I understand people addressing that part of John that writes reasonably well, and turns a few tricks on the page. But it does him no favor to see people feeding his delusions, telling him he can do the things he does because he is "special." Look back at his columns, people. He has claimed to be at death's door innumerable times, when what really happens is that he goes into the hospital after a binge, and has the fluid drained from his lungs and gets some heart meds. He then stumbles out a day later (yep, no use keeping him more than a couple of days), tearing up prescriptions, and goes on another binge. This is what they all do. He is a drunk like any other drunk, enslaved to drink, with all parts of his personality--and brain--dependent upon alcohol. He needs to start the painful journey towards recovery from that realization.
— April 8, 2010 12:21 p.m.

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