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Stupid Chick's Lucky

@scaleman, Yeah, I get a chuckle any time I see my name that close to the word "conservative." ;)
— February 4, 2011 7:33 a.m.

Stupid Chick's Lucky

Are you kidding me, Joe? The answer to "who is at fault," was taken care of by the many officers on the scene. One even came up to me to tell me right there, one I hadn't spoken to, nor had David, this officer had ONLY spoken to the cyclist, and after only speaking to the cyclist, he had determined she was at fault. Dude. ;)
— February 3, 2011 6:52 p.m.

Stupid Chick's Lucky

@XjihadX, for your hard-hitting journalistic article about cycling in San Diego, see here: http://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/2010/dec/29/co… (it was the cover feature last month). For information on what happens to me in my entertainment memoir column called DIARY of a Diva, check back here. ;)
— February 3, 2011 5:40 p.m.

Stupid Chick's Lucky

Just got the police report. Confirms what I suspected. Conclusion - cyclist at fault, three of the 5 vehicle codes I mentioned are cited on the report.
— February 3, 2011 4:51 p.m.

Stupid Chick's Lucky

Java, I had stopped, and was following the law. Even if the cyclist was on the correct side of the road, she would have to obey the stop sign laws and wait for other who had stopped first to go. Here is a list of the California Vehicle Codes she violated: CVC 21200 Every person riding a bicycle upon a roadway or any paved shoulder has all the rights and is subject to all the duties applicable to the driver of a motor vehicle (e.g., must stop at stop signs, red lights, yield to emergency vehicles, and etc.) CVC 21202 (A) Any person operating a bicycle upon a roadway at a speed less than the normal speed of traffic moving in the same direction at that time shall ride as close as practicable to the right-hand curb or edge of the roadway CVC 21650.1 A bicycle operated on a roadway, or the shoulder of a highway, shall be operated in the same direction as vehicles are required to be driven upon the roadway. CVC 27400 No person operating any vehicle, including a bicycle shall wear any headset covering, or any earplugs in, both ears. §84.09 Bicycle Riding Restricted: (a) No person shall operate a bicycle upon any sidewalk fronting any commercial business establishment unless official signs are posted authorizing such use. (b, c, and d are of the same vein). There is not ONE vehicle code I violated. I stopped, I looked both ways (even David didn't see her coming), I began to accelerate. Even if she gets a lawyer, girl doesn't have a chance at demonstrating she wasn't negligent here. I'm still waiting for a copy of the police report.
— February 3, 2011 11:26 a.m.

Farewell, Facebook Friend

Ponzi, as with your comment on my last story, you strike right to the heart of the issue. Thank you for voicing what I left between the lines.
— January 27, 2011 8:23 a.m.

Farewell, Facebook Friend

Thank you for the additional insight, Shadowcat. I agree that everyone (including me) was grateful for the updates, particularly my friends who knew Kevin much better than I did. That "like" button is not nuanced enough, but I think that the surge of love for Kevin was (and is) clear. Kevin was so kind and personable, it does not surprise me that many of his online friends were also real-life friends. I'm truly sorry for your loss.
— January 26, 2011 4:17 p.m.

DVD Review: House of Flying Daggers, Fred Rogers: America’s Favorite Neighbor, Tampopo

I love Tampopo! Just watched it (again) last week.
— January 26, 2011 4:13 p.m.

Farewell, Facebook Friend

Gin, I hear you. I think it's wonderful how the memorial remains "living," though Kevin does not. I loved looking at all of the pictures my friends posted from the big party in honor of Kevin. I thought of going, but didn't feel right about it. I regret I didn't get to know him more in life, as we were on that track. And, for the record, I haven't "de-liked" or "unfriended" yet. ;)
— January 26, 2011 1:10 p.m.

Slimmer of Hope

No, I won't. Anyone who eats so little will lose weight, with or without the hormone. And either way, it's not healthy. The whole "activating fat for energy" is hogwash. This has not been proven. See above.
— January 20, 2011 8:27 a.m.

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